Socializing Your Puppy
When you made the decision to adopt a puppy versus a full-grown dog,
you probably did so in part because you knew what you'd get.
"Yes, there will be peeing and chewing," you thought to yourself as you
looked over the litter of downy pups. "But at least I won't have to
contend with the shadowy history as to why the shelter staff nicknamed my
pet 'Tiger.'" This gave you great comfort. Until, however, you got home and
realized that a clean slate is, well, a clean slate. Not only will you be
responsible for housebreaking your pet, but you'll have to socialize him, too.
You'll want to make sure he's not only obedient, but friendly to all kinds of
people - and animals. It is a lofty goal but you can get there with hard work
and patience (on both your part and that of your pup). We've got a few
suggestions to help get you started.
Stages of Puppy Development
Before you can develop a strategy to socialize your pet, it is important
to know something about how puppies are wired.
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Seven to eight weeks: Many breeders typically wean and release pups to
their new homes at this age. This is an ideal time to adopt, as puppies
are becoming more independent and are exploring their environment.
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Eight to ten weeks: Your little guy will likely go through a "fear"
period. He'll stick close to you and will frighten easily. Try to
limit noise and keep new experiences non-threatening. (Trust us on
this and plan your five-year-old son's birthday party to a nearby park.
Do not take your puppy.)
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Ten weeks of age: Puppies enter a "juvenile" stage in which he will
be more inquisitive and ready to explore. This phase lasts until
adulthood. It is a terrific time to introduce new experiences and
work on socializing your pet. (Please note that some puppies go
through a second "fear" period around four or five months.)
Meeting New Kinds of People
The world is full of different types of individuals, so it is essential
that your pet can relate to others. Always reward your animal with treats
when he demonstrates desired behavior.
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Begin by introducing your puppy to quiet friends on his own home
turf for short periods of time. Invite one or two neighbors over
for a drink on the patio and to scratch your puppy's ears. When
greeting your little one, have guests crouch down low and allow him
to approach them on his own time. This will give your pup a greater
sense of control.
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Once your pet masters "home" visits, try taking him to the park
or dog run. Let him decide who to meet and for how long. You never
want to force your pet into a situation where he is fearful.
(Of course, make sure the person he approaches wants to be greeted.
Some people are afraid of dogs — even puppies.)
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It is also important to introduce your puppy to people of different
races, ethnic backgrounds, ages and professions as some dogs might
develop an aversion to people who don't look like you and thus seem
"unusual" to them. (The postman will thank you later.)
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Once he begins to enjoy new adults, introduce him to older children
for short amounts of time. Supervise the visit, of course, as kids
can play roughly and may scare your pup. If you don't know any
children personally, take the pup to a park and he'll likely draw
them in on his own. (Please note: Even if you don't have kids in
your family, it is imperative to socialize puppies with them. If
dogs don't interact with children early in life, they often develop
aggressive behavior towards them later. Small children who race around
and make high-pitched squealing noises can trigger prey instincts in
dogs who are not used to them.)
Getting Along With Other Dogs
Even puppies who consider themselves to be nearly human will have to learn to get
along in the canine community. At the very minimum, you'll come across another dog
(or his scent) during your daily walks. Thus, he needs to practice doggiespeak.
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Head to the park to find poochy playmates. Allow cordial sniffing and
some play, but back off if your puppy seems intimidated or if the other
parties have poor manners.
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Consider hosting doggie play dates. Invite friends to bring their
dogs to your garden or backyard for a game of frisbee.
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Please note that dog-to-dog socialization is hugely important for
breeds that are dominant or aggressive.
Getting Along With Other Pets
Your new puppy and your Siamese cat might never be best friends (Remember
the Disney story "Lady and the Tramp?") but you can at least encourage
them to tolerate one another.
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Begin by keeping the newcomer in a kennel and allowing the resident
pet to "visit" him through the safety of the bars. Gradually extend
the length of visits before allowing the two to meet face-to-face.
Supervise these meetings until you feel confidant all will go well.
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Please note that no matter how well-behaved and well-socialized your
puppy is, he will likely still try to chase animals he considers prey.
It would be dually unpleasant for both your bunny and your three-year-old
to witness a National Geographic hunting scenario, so we suggest keeping
Fluffy safely locked in her cage and out of your pup's reach.
Coping With New Experiences
The vacuum cleaner can be a terrifying thing for a young puppy. All is quiet,
then suddenly, this towering devil growls to life and begins sucking up dog hair
from the couch. To avoid frightening him (and having to clean up pee), introduce
your pup gradually to new experiences.
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Let him check out the quieted vacuum/car/baby toy/hair clippers by himself.
Then, place him a safe distance away before turning it on for a moment or
two. After turning it off, stand by the object and call your pup to you.
Reward him. Repeat this lesson, extending the amount of time the sound is
running. Finally, call him to you while the noise is actually going. He'll
eventually see that the television/fan/washing machine is no big deal.
Recommended Readings:
Neil, David H., and Clarice Rutherford. How to Raise a Puppy You Can Live With.
Alpine Publications, Loveland, Colorado, 1981.
The Monks of New Skete. The Art of Raising a Puppy. Little, Brown and Company, 1991.
Raising a puppy and socializing it is a tremendous labor of love. When done correctly,
your pup will aspire to someday holiday or vacation with a team of rugby players.